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05 May 2010
7 MONTH PREGNANT MOTHER JUMPS INTO WELL TO RESCUE DAUGHTER
The incident was an admixture of a miracle and reality. It sounds like James Bond films-touchy, gripping, patently emotional. The NTA reporter wants the story told so that mothers all over the world can learn to care for their children by giving them closer attention, "Nothing is too much for them because the children are our tomorrow", she enthused.
"I was inside the living room on the faithful day around 5pm or thereabout, with my nurse friend who had earlier called me that she was paying me a visit. We were actually discussing about my state, church matters and other related issues when I overheard my house maid, Aminat," shouting at my four years old daughter to stay away from the well...
"Some minutes later, my guest left and I had to see her off to the main road, just a stone throw to our residence to board a taxi. She actually asked me to go back home because of my condition because I wanted to wait till she boarded a taxi. To my dismay, when I got home, Aminat was just pointing at the well, shaking, and crying that my daughter, Bola had fallen into the well. I couldn't believe it. I peeped into the well and I found my daughter gasping for breath inside the well."
"Bola, since we gave birth to her, has been a very active baby .There was a day she went to visit my mother. While playing running around, she fell into a hot coal pot, and came out with burns all over her body. The scars are still there till today. She was said to be doing this "Boju-Boju", child play whereby children will cover their face and be running around, hide and seek games. Since her elderly ones were not at home, my daughter covered her face with a bucket running around the compound. I just wonder. she didn't know the time she got to the brink of the well, and somersaulted inside. My brother, I couldn't control myself seeing my daughter dying inside the well as she was gasping for breadth. Watching the pains she was going through was too much for me. Honestly, I didn't know the time I jumped inside the well."
"You could have died, not only with the baby but also with Bola you wanted to rescue," she was told.
"May you never be in such situation. No mother would watch her child dying and would be thinking the way you are thinking. At that time, the fear of death didn't come to my mind. All I wanted was to rescue my daughter with all my life. Any good mother will tell you this. So, I jumped into the well and with my seven months old pregnancy, I landed on Bola's head inside the well, and together we went down, down at the bottom of the well.You know she summersaulted with the plastic bucket she was playing with, into the well.
That bucket, by divine arrangement, saved her skull from hitting the brick while she fell into the well. You know, as a journalist, you are supposed to know basic things about everything. So, in the process of my covering various assignments, I have heard a lot about one or two therapies about swimming. My brother, those things, I didn't know when they came to my mind. I didn't also know where the strength came from. Down, under the
water, I used my two legs already swollen up even before I jumped into the well, to bring Bola up to the water level, using my back and the two elbows to climb up the well. The clothes I had on was torn to shreds in the process, and there were bruises all over my back and elbow as a result of the injuries I sustained while bringing her up to the water level.
"While both of us were at the water level, I balanced myself with her on my two knees. Bola was already gone. So I started beating her, all over her body, slapping her mouth, and blowing air into her mouth, nose and ear. I did that intermittently with all the strength I had and slapped her severally. Honestly, I didn't know where all those therapies came from but I must have learnt them from somewhere, sometimes.
"About 15 minutes later, my daughter started making sounds. So, I intensified the therapies. Eventually, she shouted aloud and it was then I knew where I was.At that point, I was now left with the problem of how two of us will get out of the well. I know there is God; that He exists. But this experience further strengthened my belief that there is God. If not God, the three of us would have possibly died inside the well because I didn't mind. The agony was too much for me to bear.
•Iyabode and her daughter, Bola before she fell into the well.
"By now, people had already gathered at the mouth of the well. My friend who was waiting for taxi was called by my house girl, who in turn called two young boys walking away to come and rescue us from the well. They looked for ladder but the ladder couldn't enter the well because of the position of two of us. By now, I didn't have any strength in me again. So, I couldn't climb up, talk less of coming up with my daughter. So, it was a big task, as frantic efforts were being made to bring us out of the well. Eventually, the ladder was suspended halfway and my daughter who by now had been terribly weak, struggled to climb out through the encouragements of the sympathizers."It was two hefty men that came into the well to bring me out. I thank God Almighty for his mercies! Immediately, I asked them to take us to our hospital. By now, it was going to around 6.30-7pm. All this while, my husband didn't know anything. He was at work in his office. When he got home, he saw traces of slippers flung around, and everywhere looked much unkempt. He was actually scolding my house girl to tidy up the compound before my arrival.
Could you believe that my house girl didn't tell my husband what happened until I phoned him around 8pm that he should come and meet us at the hospital. We were there for two weeks. To the glory of the Almighty God, my pregnancy was certified okay, same with my health and that of my daughter. We later went to church for a thanksgiving.
It's a lesson to all mothers. We should give closer attention to our children, and be prayerful too.
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Tara
Working Mom
3 comments:
I am reading this with 'mixed' feelings. Thank God for His love and mercies and for delivering Iyabode and children.I am a career, working mom, my schedule is always 'chaotic' e.g. I'm always panting in the mornings rushing to drop my child at school on time and get to work on schedule..... every other vehicle before me is 'too slow' for my liking but in the midst of all that, just an iceberg of my day, I never forget my safety instincts. Iyabode should have acted immediately she heard the maid cautioning her child about falling into the well knowing her child's 'hyperactivity': her time with her friend not withstanding. God has given us these children to care for Him, we should not disappoint God. He gives good gifts and His gifts added no sorrow but joy. Let's be a little careful and responsible to our children. Kudos moms....we're really super heroes, lets live up to that with joy in all we do. Thanks Mary for this forum, really worth it. Hope to learn and share.
i keep imagining iyabode with this heavy pregnancy, the encourage she took to secured her daughter's life, this reminded me of an incident that took place at Yaba bus stop on my way to my office November, 2001. Then i was six months pregnant. I was about joining a bus to my office at Obalende, i had just place one leg on the door of the bus while the second one was still on the ground, when the driver notice police van approaching he decided to move with speed, my second leg down, i decided to hold on to the body of the bus still hanging, till we got to a spot where the passengers screening and force him to stop for me. it was God's intervention. If i had left the bus, i would have been only mentioned when occasion such as this arises.
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