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13 July 2011

TALES FROM TITILAYO'S MURDER- IMAGES FROM THE SCENE OF THE KILLING.

WARNING! THIS ARTICLE CONTAINS DISTURBING IMAGES THAT MAY BE EMOTIONALLY IRRITABLE AND DISGUSTING, READER’S DISCRETION IS ADVISED.

Working Moms ponders more on Omozojie's death. One tough working mom in the banking sector, her death and all the sad event surrounding it. Titilayos's body still unburied, case still undecided and with tears in our eyes we ask; will justice be done? Only recently Titi's husband/killer decided to speak to the Nigerian media, he claims that his wife killed herself and even cut him severally in the process. God! could this be true? Kolade said he is a pastor yet he had a steady girlfriend but got another woman (Titi) pregnant which was the reason he was pressured to marry her. Crap! According to him, he had been having serious issues with the deceased over their marriage before that fateful day that she ended up killing herself, after stabbing him too. Hmmm! Can this be true? Arowolo said the deceased acted under the influence of demons that took over her body and turned her into another person entirely. He said: "The woman was possessed that day and while we were quarreling, she went into the kitchen and brought out a knife with which she overpowered me and then began to stab me all over my body and head". The next thing I saw, she started stabbing herself repeatedly with the knife while telling me that she was tired of the marriage and that since I did not want to let her go, she will kill me and then kill herself.”  Chei! and he wants us to believe this! I asked others who read Arowolo's defense what they feel and below are  their various Reactions To Arowolo's Defence:
Yinka Akintunde: "This Story from Arowolo does not hold at all, Titi sustained at least 20 stab wound on her head; it is practically impossible to inflict multiple stab wound on oneself talk less of on the head. In self inflicted wound, the first fatal wound with the accompanying pain will trigger parasympathetic reaction hence greatly reduce the victim's capacity to do more. It is also anatomically impossible to inflict multiple wounds on ones head save the vertex or the neck, even at that it can't be multiple.  Saying "am a pastor" stinks please, stop that forth with; you are not even godly seeing you impregnated the poor lady while dating someone else you claimed you wanted to marry. All of the defences you are putting up now are after thoughts which are hollow and callous at best; calling your wife a demoniac is sad. Face the music, get the rope and be hanged; if you repent while in trial you can be forgiven by God but the law must still take its course". 

FESTUS: "This chap has forgotten that he was not talking to his clansmen. Self preservation is the first instinct of man (and even animals). Those who commit suicide does it in a quick manner so that the pain if it exists at will be brief. For someone to have stabbed herself many times, hammered herself severally in her husband's presence with no attempt to overpower her, while the first reaction of the husband was to lock the door and run away for 3 days before he was captured, begs for reasoning.Autopsy report will support the charge of this blatant murder. This guy should not have allowed himself to be overwhelmed with frustration".

Kemmy A, TITI'S SCHOOL MATE:"This is absolute crap!! I attended university in Edo state with omozojie and she never displayed any of these character this young man is saying... she was extremely meek and one would think a man that finds her(a good wife) will bless God all his life!! I have had direct info from her family as well regarding this..How can sum1 stab her eye, cut her breast off and use a hammer on herself!!! she would have died after the first 2 stabs!! What i believe is that Kolade disguised as a Pastor (the kind of man Omo would have loved to marry) not knowing he was a woman beater and a monster in disguise. a jobless graduate who the law has presented now to appear instead as the killer but a suspect who has been charged on one-count of murder. Arowolo killed my friend his 29-year-old wife in cold blood at their No. 8 Akindehinde Street, Isolo, a suburb of Lagos, on Saturday, June 24. I can't be wrong on this. I know Titi.

WMN: "My people listen; it is best for the woman to stay out and live, than to stay in and die. The dead cannot speak, just like Titi cannot come back to tell us that Kolade is telling a lie. I am heart broken, many moms are sad and devastated. Nigerians, her family members, friends and colleagues of late Titilayo still long to hear the outcome of the case. To those who are still seconding the fact that Titi killed herself, these pictures that had been taken at the scene of the event should go a long way in accentuating the fact which remains that the deceased was murdered by someone. Quality reasoning and pragmatic judgement would simply tell you that no woman would want to do this to herself.  A woman with a great job (a banker with Skye Bank),  and one with bright future and purpose in life. I believe that suicidal attempts would be the last thing on her mind. Titi really had no reason to take her own life as we were meant to believe. 
Her chest showing her breast cut off

Titi's dismembered body

Her mutilated hands

Her face showing her eyes gouging
Generally, nobody including the law has been able to disapprove or approve the assertions of Nigerians especially those that have constantly rained heavy curses on Kolade saying that he killed his wife. Perhaps all that the people want to see is  "Justice…” that final verdict from the judge predicating justice for the wasted Titi. That will at least send some message of 'victory'  to angry Nigerians and concerned folks who have been giving their says on the matter.

According to The Nation Newspapers:

Akolade Arowolo, the 30-year-old suspected of killing his banker wife, Titilayo (29), was on Friday, June 9 ordered to be remanded in prison by the Magistrate Court in Yaba, Lagos.

The order by Magistrate Mrs. Demi Ajayi was sequel to his appearance in court. He was taken to court by the Police, who filed a one-count charge of murder against him. He was, however, not arraigned as the Magistrate chose to refer the case to the state’s Directorate of Public Prosecutions for advice. The magistrate also said in view of the nature of the case, relating to murder, the accused person should be remanded in prison.The charge reads: "That you Arowolo Akolade, on June 24, 2011, at about 1.30pm, at Isolo Lagos, in the Lagos Magisterial District, did unlawfully kill one Arowolo Omozoje ‘female’ by stabbing her with a knife, thereby committing an offence punishable under section 319 (1) of the Criminal Code Cap C-17, Vol. 11, laws of Lagos State of Nigeria 2003."

A man identified as Mr. Arowolo, who claimed to be the accused’s father, wept profusely all through the court proceedings.The father, who spoke with journalists after the proceedings, said he was aware that his son had been abusing his wife and had on many occasions intervened. He added that the last time he learnt that Akolade physically abused his late wife, he decided not to intervene anymore. "I have not seen Akolade and Titilayo since January. I decided to stop intervening because I was tired of settling their disputes."So, the last time I was told that Akolade had beaten Titilayo up, I decided I wouldn’t interfere. In fact, in my heart, I was hoping they would just get a divorce. "It was with dismay that I received news that Akolade had killed his wife. Titilayo was such a nice lady. She used to call my wife a lot because they were quite fond of each other. "Some months before this tragic incident, we tried calling her but unfortunately, her phone never went through. It was only later that we discovered that she had changed her phone number." Arowolo pleaded with the immediate family of the deceased to forgive his son for his deed. The magistrate, however, ordered Akolade to be remanded in the Ikoyi prisons.

The case was adjourned to September 9, 2011 for further hearing.



23 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is serious!

Anonymous said...

OMG! Can this man go free? To think I almost believed this man when I read his own version of the story in This Day Newspaper. My goodness, why is the mainstream media not publishing these. Jeeess, this is day light murder. I hope this man does not go unpunished. Rest in peace Titilayo!

Anonymous said...

This guy(Kolade) is so heartless to have done this to his wife.....he shouldn't have married her if he is so ruthless......

Anonymous said...

D idiot dat did dis will still be allowed 2 leave with humans? Jungle justice would have been d best for him............

Anonymous said...

This is disheartening!!!may d murderer of Titilayo be continually punished ‎​in this and in d afterlife.

Anonymous said...

I, with fear and trepidation,I say we should think of the day of judgement, for the end is near. for the 'pastor' guy i feel so sorry for him. He has a lot to deal with(man and more importantly GOD).I hope he finds it in all of this the ability to make his peace with his maker cause that's the most important thing.

Anonymous said...

Dis man is lying. He shld be brought to justice.

Anonymous said...

Pls if you can date back on one of my write up on this incident.I said something to that man.Being bornagain is in doing and not in talking.How cld a man who claimed to be pastor was already sleeping with a woman he's not paid for.Believers until you do neccessary things and the white weeding that's when you have the right to bang her.That man need tell us what he had done.

Anonymous said...

May her soul find peaceful rest in the bosom of our Lord,may justice prevailed and may God heal d man's mind n be mercifultice prevailed and may God heal d man's mind n be merciful

EmmaPhade said...

Titi may your soul REST in PEACE and for the Akolade you have CASE with GOD .......

Anonymous said...

Titi may your gentle soul REST IN PEACE...why do we have so much darkness in the midst of light?anyway God knows best...but its painful and disheartening..

Anonymous said...

Ugochukwu
He is never a pastor,he was looking for excuse.he will face the music of the Law.he killed he wife.But pls must everyone marry

Anonymous said...

This is S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ sad and a huge loss τ̲̅ȍђ Nigerians i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ general... Whoever is responsible will definitely meet with karma...Titi may your soul rest i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ peace!

Anonymous said...

GOD PLEASE SAVE ME FROM SATAN AND HIS DEMONIC COHORTS WHO ARE PARADING UNDER SEVERAL GUISES O GOD LET MY ONLY PROBLEM BE TEMPORARY POVERTY

Ehimen I said...

Omozoje was one of my closest friends. The fb community page I created in her honor (RIP Omozoje Titilayo Oyakhire says it all). She was the gentlest of the gentle.

Anonymous said...

This guy could be a serial killer! We need to check his history. He will not go free unless there are no women left....we will march against the judiciary!

Anonymous said...

I tink dis mr evil kald himslf kolade shuld alow to suffer for 1yr!kolade shuld b killd by cutn into pieces b4 he gves up to ghost !titilayo may God Almighty gves u entenal rest !RIP.

Anonymous said...

if this man goes scot free our legal system should be held liable there is no room for doubt he killed her such wounds on the arms are usually defensive sustained when one tries to shield herself there really should be no room for debate the facts speak for themselves

Anonymous said...

I feel so sad hearing the death of titi,but this shd serve as a pointer to all ladies not to rush into marriage,and again,i want to appeal to the police and d law enforcement not to sweep this case under the carpet.Akolade must be dealth with.

Anonymous said...

There are so many things which I want to know about the killer's family.Furnish me with those things,I promise to erase his generation with ease.Do you know that the killer's father has been attending the court proceedings.The father is going to be my first victim of vengeance.The family is not really supposed to live.

Anonymous said...

This gruesome episode just in a way emphasizes the hypocrisy that permeates the new generation churches, I'm afraid. When people get elevated indiscriminately to the positions of 'Pastor' without proper annointing. It's all about getting ''ordained" after attending some bible class for a couple of months, get to be called a Pastor, get red carpet treatments in the church because of your large donations, get your own Sunday school class because it is assumed you have a superior knowledge that your students don't have, etc. Nonsense!

Back to topic, I have no doubt in my mind that this fake Pastor Kolade is a demon, if i ever saw one and does not deserve instant death which he probably would get in the law courts. He should be confined to a prison with pictures of his late wife's mutilated body spread across his prison cell with an instruction that any time he pulls any of the pictures down he would be given 10 strokes of koboko. Let him deal with those images for the rest of his natural life.

Anonymous said...

Titilayo I do not know u from Adam but am so hurt to depth of my soul. Akolade went about showing ladies that he is not married and asking ladies out while abusing the mother of his child. Akolade Arowolo u r a beast n a liar. You are a born again Christian let alone a child of God. When a chicken is being slaughtered its touching n painful not to talk of an human being and ur wife at that. I can't get myself to understand y the humiliting death. Its so sad. I can't imagine the pain Titilayo went through b4 she gave up the ghost. Akolade Arowolo u will know no peac e and every pain the innocent lady got u ll receive worst. Even if justice is not done, Akolade u r a lot course n walking corpse on the streets of the planet earth. How will the little girl feel when she hears how her dearest mother was multilated and murdered in cold blood by her own father. God!!! My God grant Titilayo's family the fortitude to bear the loss. Titilayo u ll get justice and gentle soul will rest in peace. Amen.

Anonymous said...

so what has the law done sitting or standing while carrying the symbol of justice on her head and the murderers of this young lady while out in the open nawo 4nijaooooo this 20011 and we are going backwards nothing to show that we have either improved or care for each other. This is not a government thing..... it could happen to you what did you do when it happened to someone else...thanks Johnny blaize 4rm karu site Abuja

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